Fisting is not obscene. Quite the opposite: it is a natural sequitur to finger-banging, when the fingers curl in and you tuck the thumb inside. You’ll be surprised how similar the shape of a half-formed or fully-formed fist is to a vagina. It’s gentle if done at the right time (as with all kinds of penetration) and invigorates even the hardest to find G or P spot.
Stress incontinence is defined as “involuntary loss of urine upon effort or physical exertion, sneezing, or coughing”, and is essentially due to insufficient strength of the pelvic floor muscles. If you have been diagnosed with it, or believe you are affected by it, you are definitely not alone — it is the most common type of urinary incontinence between the ages of 20 and 50 years.